What Real Men Are Looking For In 2016

I have talked to multiple women from my age group about what men look for in a woman. They either couldn’t answer the question, they had no idea or they were lead to believe that looks made the woman. I sat back and thought to myself, “this must be an awful joke or am I dreaming?” For women in my age group to be taught that good looks will get you the best man is despicable. Looks will fade over time, but wasn’t doesn’t fade is your intelligence and your spirit. So, to clear everything up, we will go on an adventure to figure out what a true Alpha Male really wants in his woman.

If you have read my previous article about the True Gentleman you should already know most of what men look for. We don’t just want any girl with a pretty smile or the girl who seems to be in every party picture on social media. We want the woman that walks the walk or someone who deserves respect. This woman can make the blindest men take a second look, but respect her as an equal at the same time. She is the woman you see making executive decisions, but is never seen in off-putting settings. This means she will handle her business at the highest level, but will never go lower than that to obtain her goals. This woman is as fierce as a fiery tempest, as cold as the first snowflake in December, but has a warm brilliance to her entire life.

This woman is almost like an anomaly, which would make you lose your mind trying to understand how someone like her can actually exist. She will also be the woman hiding in plain site, but will never notice you, until you transcend into something worth looking at. Just because you are an Alpha Male. Doesn’t mean she will drop her life to go chasing after someone like you. (sorry guys, but you will have to put some work in to get a woman like this.) Also, for the women reading this and you think you fit into this little description. Use all of this knowledge and let your self worth be heard from the roof tops if you must! I am not saying to abuse your power, but this is what real men are truly seeking in a future woman.

Furthermore, she will also be completely satisfied with her life either with you or without you. She has no need for a man to complete her life; so, she has probably rejected tons of men in her life time. I know this sounds a little depressing on the guys end, but it will be worth it when you have someone like her by your side when everything is said and done. So, it means that we can’t just try any old trick in the book to get her. You will also probably fail multiple times trying to get her attention, even though you are no mere common Joe. However, if you can’t imagine your mother loving her as much as you do, then abort the mission and start again. (you went wrong somewhere along the way.) Yes, your dad matters, but your mother should feel like you have picked someone that represents her years of training/molding you into the ultimate gentleman. It is almost like a hit to her pride if you choose someone you can’t respect or she can’t respect as a woman. Also, on this note the woman should be acceptable around anyone’s family. She will be the perfect guest and will always keep the families trust. They will always appreciate the visits and they will grow to appreciate someone like her around. (also, she will be a perfect role model for younger girls in the family.)

Moreover, this woman will respect herself as a beautiful woman, but also as a living and breathing human being. Her love for herself with be so overwhelming that you might think she is conceited, but that’s just her accepting herself for who she really is. She will most likely be dressed for success and will attract attention from afar, but only the attention she accepts is appropriate. She might have the lower grade males whistling at her, but her attention is always straight ahead.

In addition, she will also dominate whatever profession she is in and will not settle for less. She will most likely be the top dog of her work environment or will be close to the top if not number one. Which means, this woman will have to be someone of intellectual superiority to other women around her. She will lead the wolf pack of women and you will know who the leader is when in her presence. It may be possible for her to dwarf your intellectual presence, but not to fear gentlemen. It will normally happen this way at first, but she might actually help you grow as a true alpha male. Behind every great man is a great woman; am I right? If she doesn’t help you grow as a man; was it ever really worth it to begin with?

In conclusion, this woman will not yield to your idea of the perfect woman. Because she will most likely be the perfect woman by her own hard work. This might not be what every man is looking for, but the only man that should matter to you is the gentleman; which is the worlds first and only Alpha Male.